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		<title>Party-in-a-box!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2012 21:23:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SBJ</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did somebody order a party in a box? Booze, snacks, citrus, mixers, ice&#8230;anyone? This is going to be a carefree, to-the-point post, considering the fact that I am on a plane to Boston from San Francisco and ever so slightly buzzed from a few friendly  mimosas. I guess you could call this a companion post, [...]]]></description>
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<p>Did somebody order a party in a box? Booze, snacks, citrus, mixers, ice&#8230;anyone?</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7895/3-fat-lady-tomboy2" rel="attachment wp-att-7898"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7898" title="3-Fat Lady Tomboy2" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/3-Fat-Lady-Tomboy2.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>This is going to be a carefree, to-the-point post, considering the fact that I am on a plane to Boston from San Francisco and ever so slightly buzzed from a few friendly  mimosas. I guess you could call this a companion post, as it picks up with the tomboy where the last post left off &#8211; same day, same round of festivities with friends, a lot more masculine. Welcome to M&#8217;s &#8220;Did somebody say &#8216;brunch&#8217;?&#8221; ensemble.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7895/2-fat-lady-tomboy1" rel="attachment wp-att-7897"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7897" title="2-Fat Lady Tomboy1" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/2-Fat-Lady-Tomboy1.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>She takes a pair of khakis from Men&#8217;s Express and makes them all kinds of handsome, and as far away from the dull, lazy Silicon Valley stereotype as a person could get, I think, by pairing them with an Elie Tahari dress shirt (a soft, bluish grey) and cardigan bought new from Crossroads &#8211; she can&#8217;t remember whatever obscure brand it is, but she found it at their College Ave. location and wishes she&#8217;d snagged the grey version as well!</p>
<p>All brought together by a haphazard, undone bow tie (of course, it didn&#8217;t start that way, but you know us&#8230;plus, a lovely member of our group felt under-dressed, so being a gentlemen, she graciously undid it on the spot to help her feel more at ease). No idea where this bow tie came from, btw. We&#8217;ve racked our brains and not much can be done about it, as we are 36,792 feet in the air. Whomp.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7895/4-p2480243" rel="attachment wp-att-7899"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7899" title="4-P2480243" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/4-P2480243.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>The shoes are from Aldo and this was their last hurrah, actually, she&#8217;s currently eyeing a pair from <a href="http://www.gentlemensboutique.com">Mr. B&#8217;s Gentlemen&#8217;s Boutique</a>, in case any of you dear readers have words on their quality and whatnot &#8211; apparently there are three shops in Boston where we can find them (compared to just two in SF). You&#8217;ll recognize her Dior Homme glasses, although soon I imagine you&#8217;ll be seeing her new prescription pair of Ray-Ban Cockpit sunglasses.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s it! And just for fun, some mushy loverbird photos at Jack London Square, taking by Autostraddle&#8217;s fearless leader herself, the incredibly talented Riese!</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7895/5-p2470908-001" rel="attachment wp-att-7900"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7900" title="5-P2470908-001" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/5-P2470908-001.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7895/7-fat-lady-tomboy-001" rel="attachment wp-att-7901"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7901" title="7-Fat Lady Tomboy-001" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/7-Fat-Lady-Tomboy-001.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7895/6-p2470909" rel="attachment wp-att-7902"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7902" title="6-P2470909" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/6-P2470909.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>We&#8217;ll keep you posted on our New England house-hunting trip, kiddos! Hopefully, there will be time to sneak in a few shoots.</p>
<p>XOXO,<br />
FFAF</p>
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		<title>Fresh Start</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 04:52:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SBJ</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here it is, folks, the first official FFAF post of the year! Picking out the first outfit of the year was a challenge &#8211; I felt like it had to be special, but at the same time the tomboy and I wanted to get ready in a jiffy for an afternoon playing around in San [...]]]></description>
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<p>Here it is, folks, the first official FFAF post of the year!</p>
<p>Picking out the first outfit of the year was a challenge &#8211; I felt like it had to be special, but at the same time the tomboy and I wanted to get ready in a jiffy for an afternoon playing around in San Francisco and at the beach (after a deliciously long morning in bed). Luckily, we spoiled Californians had lovely weather. All of these photos were taken at the Pacifica Pier, a quarter-mile long pier jutting out into the Pacific Ocean from the tiny coastal town of Pacifica, which is about a five-minute drive from our house.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/bf-2" rel="attachment wp-att-7734"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7734" title="bf" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/bf-1024x1024.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>Blue skies, just a hint of chill in the air, and a bit of haze around the edges to soften things up a bit. (I&#8217;m sure the hungover masses appreciated that last merciful touch.) If it&#8217;d been a touch cooler, I would have layered my lime green blouse under the sweater &#8211; how cute the pointed collar would have been against the black! Alas, t-shirt weather.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/wavy-2" rel="attachment wp-att-7745"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7745" title="wavy" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/wavy1-1024x819.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>Even though in <em>my</em> world this is a pretty un-fussy, low-key outfit, I sure got some looks from the anglers on the pier in Pacifica! Good thing these tights are nearly as thick as pants, what with all the wind blowing around. I could <em>never</em> wear this skirt without super thick leggings underneath &#8211; in addition to being terribly sweet it&#8217;s also obscenely short.</p>
<p>Sometimes I see other style bloggers bare-legged in skirts this short (sometimes shorter still) and my mind is thoroughly blown. What about wind? What about sitting down? What if &#8211; God forbid &#8211; you drop your bloody lens cap? Are they outfits for blog purposes only and not IRL? If not, what&#8217;s their secret and must it exclude modesty? I NEED TO KNOW.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/p2430839a" rel="attachment wp-att-7741"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7741" title="P2430839a" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/P2430839a-1024x773.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/loverbirds-2" rel="attachment wp-att-7735"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7735" title="loverbirds" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/loverbirds-1024x341.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>Daytime snuggles on the beach are kind of the best snuggles, no? I don&#8217;t ever do my hair this way, but I kind of love it, especially after seeing the pics. This is second day hair, teased a whole bunch at the crown with the top third or so pulled back and pinned into place, with a spritz or two of trusty Elnett to keep it all secure. I just used some shine serum on my brushed curls and heavy bangs (they&#8217;re growing out so quickly), and that&#8217;s it! Of course the sea breeze whipped things up, but it appears to be for the better.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/productionvalue" rel="attachment wp-att-7743"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7743" title="productionvalue" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/productionvalue-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>I&#8217;m gonna talk about my nails, and then let y&#8217;all look at the rest of the pictures sans interruption. I saw an online tutorial for ombre nails, yes, just like the clothes or hair, but for nails. It was metallic and blue, but I wanted to do a girly pinkish gold version for NYE, so I picked out four colors (yes, four) and went to work. I layered a muted brown (Zoya <em>Dea</em>) over a pinkish nude (<em>Who Comes Up with These Names?</em> from OPI) over a creamy pink (Zoya <em>Lo</em>), and then blended it all together with a glittery layer of Butter London&#8217;s <em>Tart with a Heart</em>. <a href="http://fitforafemme.tumblr.com/post/15105756684/new-years-eve-nails-zoya-lo-dea-sandwiching">Success!</a></p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/p2430895-2" rel="attachment wp-att-7747"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7747" title="P2430895" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/P24308951-1024x773.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/p2430353" rel="attachment wp-att-7738"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7738" title="P2430353" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/P2430353-1024x773.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/p2430344" rel="attachment wp-att-7737"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7737" title="P2430344" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/P2430344-1024x824.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/p2430308" rel="attachment wp-att-7736"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7736" title="P2430308" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/P2430308-774x1024.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/p2430490-1b" rel="attachment wp-att-7746"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7746" title="P2430490-1b" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/P2430490-1b-774x1024.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7733/p2430609-2" rel="attachment wp-att-7748"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7748" title="P2430609" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/P24306091-1024x825.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Details</span></p>
<p>Skirt: Zara<br />
Sweater: Target<br />
Leggings: Silence + Noise<br />
Studded Suede Ankle Boots: Trouvé<br />
Patent Leather Clutch: Alice + Olivia for Payless</p>
<p>Silver Cuff Bracelet &amp; Ring: BCBG<br />
Silver Thorned Bangle: Made Her Think<br />
Rhodium “bamboo” hoop earrings: Lauren Adams<br />
Watch: Citizen</p>
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		<title>Saturday Dreams</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 05:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SBJ</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last Saturday felt lazy, even though we left our cloud (our nickname for the fluffy new king-sized Ralph Lauren blanket we bought recently) to run a handful of errands. I wasn&#8217;t feeling super well, but we needed to go out and forage for driftwood-y tree ornaments and find an HTML5 book for M, so off [...]]]></description>
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<p>Last Saturday felt lazy, even though we left our cloud (our nickname for the fluffy new king-sized Ralph Lauren blanket we bought recently) to run a handful of errands. I wasn&#8217;t feeling super well, but we needed to go out and forage for driftwood-y tree ornaments and find an HTML5 book for M, so off we went! I perked up a bit when I snagged the very last copy of this Lula magazine and after a few sips of a gingerbread latte.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7652/p2390084" rel="attachment wp-att-7658"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7658" title="P2390084" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/P2390084.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://lulamag.com/">Lula</a> and <a href="http://www.thegentlewoman.com/">The Gentlewoman</a> are two fancy-pants magazines I really, really look forward to <del>buying</del> collecting, whenever new issues come out. In a way they feel like sister magazines; one girlish, whimsical and very clever, the other almost frighteningly smart, self-possessed and beautiful. Both are incredibly lovely. I&#8217;ve noticed a few similar magazines pop up in the market, but I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s really a comparison. The thoughtfulness of them isn&#8217;t something that can be hastily replicated!</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7652/p2380984" rel="attachment wp-att-7657"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7657" title="P2380984" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/P2380984.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>If you&#8217;re in the SF Bay Area and wonder where you can get your hot little hands on either, try <a href="http://www.issuesshop.com">Issues</a> just off Piedmont Avenue in Oakland (they carry everything under the sun and staff are always genuinely friendly and helpful), or the incomparable <a href="http://www.fogcitynews.com/home.html">Fog City News</a> on Market in SF (they double as a candy shop that carries one of the most outstanding selections of artisan chocolates the world over as well as a grand array of old-fashioned soda pop).</p>
<p>Bonus tip: Tomboys might love the high-end magazine selection at <em>F.S.C. Barber&#8217;s</em> tiny boutique on Valencia, or the ones at <em>Unionmade</em> in the Castro! They make fantastic stocking stuffers, if you happen to be looking for those final little items.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7652/incaseofrain" rel="attachment wp-att-7655"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7655" title="incaseofrain" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/incaseofrain.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>My Eleven Objects collar is on its way to me, and so are my five frames to try on from Warby Parker! I&#8217;m so excited. M has a pair from them and a handful of my friends have their frames, too, so I&#8217;m giving some a test-drive in anticipation of my annual January optometry appointment. I got it into my head that I need a pair just like James Dean&#8217;s, so I narrowed it down to these bad boys and one will surely be the winner!<br />
<img class="alignnone" src="http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lw0kjiWJpu1r2fff8o1_500.jpg" alt="" width="461" height="514" /><br />
It&#8217;s a total departure from anything I&#8217;ve had in the past, and I hardly wear my glasses as it is, but perhaps with a cheeky new pair all that will change! It&#8217;s all part, I think, of my gradual migration into an occasional tomboy femme aesthetic. First, the Everlane t-shirts, now this&#8230;what next?!</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7652/wolfpack" rel="attachment wp-att-7653"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7653" title="wolfpack" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/wolfpack.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>Dress: Fire<br />
Tights: Hue<br />
Blazer: Asos<br />
Calf-Hair Ankle Boots: Adrienne Vittadini</p>
<p>I just tossed on some of these Old Navy bracelets and my Betsey Johnson sugary skull earrings, and called it a day! That, a fishtail braid, bright pink lips and soft grey eyeshadow, for a mellow and relaxing day.</p>
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		<title>November Rain</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2011 07:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SBJ</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Greetings from San Francisco Bay! While it is borderline insane / reckless / madwomanish to want to be out on the bay right now with all of this terrifying wind, I kind of want to be anyway. I mean, how exciting would it be!? All jostled and wild and free in the night! Not on [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>Greetings from San Francisco Bay! </em>While it is borderline insane / reckless / madwomanish to want to be out on the bay right now with all of this terrifying wind, I kind of want to be anyway. I mean, how exciting would it be!? All jostled and wild and free in the night! Not on a ferry, though, on something sexier and more, uh, seaworthy. I could be wrong, but ferries seem to be meant for quick, repeated jaunts back and forth short distances on mostly calm waters.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7584/ferryfemme" rel="attachment wp-att-7588"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7588" title="ferryfemme" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/ferryfemme.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>In that top top top photo, you can see the Golden Gate Bridge braced against the Pacific Ocean, on a very gloomy afternoon. Just above, behind me, you can see San Francisco. The hilly bit is Pacific Heights, I think. This is the commuter ferry, it hops from Pier 39 to Tiburon and Sausalito for a mere $21, round-trip. ($9 if you have a Clipper, such a steal. I also recommend a bag of hot baby donuts to keep you warm and happy, all smothered in cinnamon and sugar. So good.)</p>
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<p>A very long time ago on a beautifully sunny, cool day, M &amp; I took this very ferry to Tiburon, a teeny tiny Marin peninsula that sticks out into the bay. We wined and dined on freshly made beds on a huge, gorgeous wooden balcony overlooking the water with a most spectacular view of the city, while a DJ played Thievery Corporation-esque music in the background. On the ferry ride back, as the sun was setting and the big, heavy Fall moon rose like a sparkling jewel in the bosom of the sky over the Oakland Hills, we noticed a very sweet old couple nuzzling and holding hands on the ferry. It was so terribly romantic and tender, I thought, and M later confessed that she noticed them, too, and had secretly hoped that we&#8217;d live long enough to be like that one day together.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7584/p2370596-2" rel="attachment wp-att-7592"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7592" title="P2370596" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/P23705961-1024x819.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7584/s-4" rel="attachment wp-att-7593"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7593" title="s" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/s.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="480" /></a></p>
<p>The obvious takeaway here is this: <strong>Ferry Dates, FTW!</strong></p>
<p>The boats in Sausalito, where we went to this particular day, were kind of scattered at the far end of the island, and we stuck to the main drag for lunch and to wander around. There were so many tiny, fast little crabs hiding in these rocks I stood on. M &amp; I tried real hard to catch one, but I chickened out and M just wasn&#8217;t quick enough!</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7584/p2370583" rel="attachment wp-att-7586"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7586" title="P2370583" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/P2370583.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>So, outfit stuff:</p>
<p>Corduroys &amp; Striped Sweater: Gap<br />
Plaid Shirt: Full Tilt<br />
Boots: Adrienne Vittadini<br />
Coat: H&amp;M<br />
Fur Collar: Vintage<br />
Leather Gloves: Cole Haan<br />
Earrings: Banana Republic</p>
<p>And hey, like you need the reminder, but&#8230;<br />
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		<title>Wreck Me, Resurrect Me</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 23:12:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SBJ</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We took these yesterday, when the ground was still soft and wet from Saturday&#8217;s rainstorms. I was still recovering from all the fun we had at the Wild Flag show at Great American Music Hall in San Francisco. After so many years of seeing lots of amazing shows in the Bay Area, GAMH is hands-down [...]]]></description>
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<p>We took these yesterday, when the ground was still soft and wet from Saturday&#8217;s rainstorms. I was still recovering from all the fun we had at the Wild Flag show at Great American Music Hall in San Francisco.</p>
<p>After so many years of seeing lots of amazing shows in the Bay Area, GAMH is hands-down the winner. It&#8217;s over a hundred years old and lovingly restored despite its seat in the less than desirable Tenderloin, it always feels incredibly intimate but never awkwardly so (like at Cafe du Nord or Bottom of the Hill &#8211; both definitely great, but not in the same league as GAMH), its got food and well-made drinks and just feels comfortable. I walk in there and it somehow feels homey to me.</p>
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<p>WILD FLAG! They were really, really perfect. I haven&#8217;t danced like that in ages. Everyone was amazing, but Carrie especially so &#8211; there was a lovely amount of cheerful bantering with the audience, and she&#8217;d would bounce back and forth from being very deeply and seriously draped over her guitar to being unable to suppress infectious ear-to-ear grins that we all lapped up like drunk kittens. I wish I could have asked her where she got her blouse. It was really gorgeous on her.</p>
<p>There was plenty of slithery slithering of guitar parts and a line about hair-pulling in a new song which nearly killed me and trademark Carrie-kicks and the exceptional <em>Racehorse</em> went on for like 20 minutes and<strong> I.</strong> <strong>didn&#8217;t. want. it. to. ever. stop.</strong> Ever. I think I&#8217;m mildly whip-lashed from working it out so hard during the show. <em>Perfect, perfect, perfect. </em></p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7268/agora" rel="attachment wp-att-7271"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7271" title="agora" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/agora.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="480" /></a></p>
<p>The audience was, as expected, heavily queer. For instance, I bonded with another femme over our identical cowgirl bags and we ran into some friends whilst foraging for a bite or two. I managed to scare off the one rude (and very tall) hipster who tried to elbow his way in front of us right in the middle of the show. M bought one of the band&#8217;s t-shirts &#8211; it&#8217;s so awesome, wait until you see it! &#8211; and I had a major fangirl moment (aside from this entire post), but I refuse to bore you with the details. When the show ended, we took off for a midnight adventure by-the-sea under a sky full of stars, and slept like babies once we were home and tucked into bed.</p>
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<p>Trusty, Rusty Corduroys: Gap<br />
Fringed Pony Tank: Lovebyrd<br />
Denim Shirt ,Fur Collar: Vintage<br />
Calf-Hair Wedge Boots: Adrienne Vittadini<br />
Necklace: Galibardy<br />
Earrings: Betsey Johnson</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7268/courageneverfails" rel="attachment wp-att-7272"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7272" title="courageneverfails" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/courageneverfails.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="480" /></a><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7268/noquarters" rel="attachment wp-att-7273"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7273" title="noquarters" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/noquarters.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>Hope everyone had wonderful weekends and remembered to <em>Fall Back. </em>Posting daily sure is kicking my ass, but surely somewhere in all this is an effective lesson on self-discipline, right?</p>
<p>Cheers,</p>
<p>FFAF</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Two Days, Two Shores</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 22:01:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SBJ</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Welcome to Fort Funston! It used to be a real live military fort until 1963, but now it&#8217;s mostly known for being THE place to take your dogs off-leash, and besides, it&#8217;s bloody gorgeous, isn&#8217;t it? Our New England friend was astounded by the dramatic terrain and sights of all the hang gliders preparing to [...]]]></description>
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<p>Welcome to Fort Funston!</p>
<p>It used to be a real live military fort until 1963, but now it&#8217;s mostly known for being THE place to take your dogs off-leash, and besides, it&#8217;s bloody gorgeous, isn&#8217;t it? Our New England friend was astounded by the dramatic terrain and sights of all the hang gliders preparing to take flight where we descended a bajillion stories of uneven, sandy, log-and-cable-made steps to the beach. Such a long way down, but definitely worth it.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7078/justlikeyou" rel="attachment wp-att-7080"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7080" title="justlikeyou" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/justlikeyou.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="480" /></a></p>
<p>Once again, I forgot my camera (it was a kind of unexpected detour after brunch, after all &#8211; hence the suede heels!) so these are sub par cell phone photos, courtesy of our HTC EVOs. M was determined to find dead stuff, which she did (a HUGE dead bird, piles and piles of dead crabs), so she moved on to looking for live crabs. No such luck!</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7078/imag0386" rel="attachment wp-att-7081"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7081" title="IMAG0386" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/IMAG0386-1024x819.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
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<p>Tomboy + femme footwear. Hers are Asos brogues, mine are suede Franco Sarto pumps in maybe the most perfect shade of red I&#8217;ve ever seen. M discovered that her RSQ skinny jeans are way too snug for being doused with salt water, then a hike, but they sure look cute with her plaid Alfani shirt and vintage cardigan. I paired a Calvin Klein skirt with an old camisole and denim vest, plus an antique gold rope chain necklace M got for me recently. I also love the wrap dress our friend wore &#8211; such a bright, beautiful print!</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7078/p2270770" rel="attachment wp-att-7083"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7083" title="P2270770" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/P2270770-1024x821.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>The next day we drove along the Pacific Coast HWY to get to Half Moon Bay, and we were all very intrigued when we passed this cove. It&#8217;s called Grey Whale Cove. It&#8217;s also more widely known as <em>Devil&#8217;s Slide</em>, and we decided to stop and explore it on the way home. It was another beach requiring quite a hike up and down many sets of wooden stairs (at least these ones are level).</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7078/imag0424" rel="attachment wp-att-7086"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7086" title="IMAG0424" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/IMAG0424-1024x819.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>Devil&#8217;s Slide is also more locally/commonly known as a particularly terrifying stretch of the 1, where people plummet to their deaths in M&#8217;s own personal worst nightmare, and terrible landslides that cause impossible road closures for days and days at a time. They&#8217;re building a tunnel, but nobody&#8217;s holding their breath because they&#8217;ve been at it for decades.</p>
<p>See that thing down there? It&#8217;s what remains of an old military observation station last used in WWII. You can even hike up there, and I plan to before the year ends. It&#8217;s goddamn awesome.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7078/p2270831" rel="attachment wp-att-7085"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7085" title="P2270831" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/P2270831-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7078/imag0426" rel="attachment wp-att-7084"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7084" title="IMAG0426" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/IMAG0426-819x1024.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7078/p2270834" rel="attachment wp-att-7088"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7088" title="P2270834" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/P2270834-1024x819.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>Lovely, no? We&#8217;re also all ignoring the creepy nudist strolling around 25 yards or so behind us. As far as I can tell from the beach&#8217;s official website, it&#8217;s not that kind of beach! No idea what this giant concrete thing is, probably some sort of unfortunate drainage malarkey, but it looked like a good place to hide a dead body so naturally I went to check it out. M made me climb down (I&#8217;d been on that top ledge at first) and having discovered zero corpses, I made my way gingerly over a rusted, broken down wire fence and ran around like a chicken with its head cut off!</p>
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<p><em>Running &#8217;round the barnyard</em><br />
<em>Fallin&#8217; in and out of love</em></p>
<p><em>Poor thing&#8217;s blind as a bat</em><br />
<em>Getting up falling down getting up</em><br />
<em><br />
My heart&#8217;s runnin&#8217; round</em><br />
<em>Like a chicken with its head cut off</em></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve got on some Banana Republic plants (sounds better than jeggings), a fun deer print top from H&amp;M, and a vintage sweater from IndieMart. The black canvas + brown leather boots are by Seychelles, so comfortable and I love them. <a href="http://www.6pm.com/seychelles-meteor-shower-black-canvas">6pm has &#8216;em for cheap in all three color combos! </a></p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/7078/p2270783" rel="attachment wp-att-7090"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-7090" title="P2270783" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/P2270783-1024x821.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>Pumpkin patch, rodeo, YES RODEO, pics coming soon! M is taking me TO THE GRAND NATIONAL RODEO tonight, surprise! They&#8217;ll be announcing Miss Grand National and it happens to be &#8220;Tough Enough to Wear Pink&#8221; night, plus <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iihCQlPFIMk">cowboy mounted shooting</a>. Can&#8217;t wait!</p>
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<p>Love,</p>
<p>FFAF</p>
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		<title>Find The Girl</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 19:48:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SBJ</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Typical day wandering around the forest drinking Blanton&#8217;s and pouncing on tree stumps. It&#8217;s a gloomy, rainy Fall day here at home, which is very lovely &#8211; the rain sounds divine &#8211; but the downside is that it means yet another canceled riding lesson. I haven&#8217;t been riding in two weeks, and it was something [...]]]></description>
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<p>Typical day wandering around the forest drinking Blanton&#8217;s and pouncing on tree stumps. It&#8217;s a gloomy, rainy Fall day here at home, which is very lovely &#8211; the rain sounds divine &#8211; but the downside is that it means yet another canceled riding lesson. I haven&#8217;t been riding in two weeks, and it was something like 80°F then. My instructor just texted to tell me that my pony is lame, to boot.</p>
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<p>Did y&#8217;all have a nice weekend? Ours was awesome. We had dinner at MUA in Oakland with an out-of-town friend who was interviewing for an exciting new position nearby, and the evening weather was gorgeous, the streets packed to the gills with Art Murmur-goers. The tomboy called the shots on Saturday, so we stayed in our PJs, slept in, watched movies and lazed around all the day long. Yesterday <em>I</em> got to call the shots, so we brunched in the Mission and soaked in the blues skies at IndieMart in Potrero Hill, petite in tow.</p>
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<p>M found us some DIY mimosa kits (paper lunch sacks containing a bottle of OJ, a can of Sofia, and a plastic cup) and Korean tacos, and I scored some lovely finds &#8211; a vintage sweater with a tribal Pendleton feel, a nudie girl friendship bracelet, and a friendly, soft-skin making solid lotion bar.</p>
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<p>Later that night I got all dressed up to meet a friend on the Embarcadero, where we attended a Fleet Week formal reception aboard the HMCS Ottawa at Pier 35. It was so much fun! The Snowbirds (officially known as the Canadian Forces 431 Air Demonstration Squadron) were all there and as they are basically rock stars, or the Canadian versions of our Blue Angels, it was so cool to hang out on the same awesome WWII destroyer ship as them. After my date &#8211; an officious member of the Canadian Consulate &#8211; and I got our sea legs over cocktails, we eventually scampered up and down four levels of the ship on an excellent tour, which ended in an invitation to sit down and have a beer (Canadian!) in the Ward Room. There may or may not have also been Canadian hip-hop playing.</p>
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<p>OK, let&#8217;s discuss this outfit. I really like this dress and both times I&#8217;ve worn it so far, it&#8217;s gotten lots of compliments. People can&#8217;t believe it&#8217;s not vintage when I tell them. I feel like it&#8217;s really versatile &#8211; can be dressed up or down, worn in mild or cold weather &#8211; and features a print that&#8217;s somehow both attention-getting and soft, muted.</p>
<p>Dress &amp; Pony Watch: Asos<br />
Belt: Vintage<br />
Shoes: Seychelles (so comfortable, you guys)<br />
Necklaces: Culp Baubles (lipstick bullet), Mariele Ivy (bear tooth)<br />
Bracelets: Lori&#8217;s Shoes (leather + gold cuff), H&amp;M (braided friendship bracelet)<br />
Ring: Crossroads<br />
Clutch: Handmade <a href="http://jezebel.com/5831577/how-to-make-an-envelope-clutch">by this smart, foxy lady</a></p>
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<p>What&#8217;s it like where you are? I know it snowed in Utah, finally stormed in Austin, and that Boston saw a little Indian Summer of its own this weekend. All the weather-y things.</p>
<p>XOXO,</p>
<p>FFAF</p>
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		<title>Coláiste na Tríonóide</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Sep 2011 21:10:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SBJ</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Welcome, dear readers, to Trinity College Dublin! Its story begins all the way back in 1592, incredibly, and is the oldest university in Ireland. It has over 16,000 students and is #52 in the world&#8217;s Top 100 universities. It&#8217;s really, really gorgeous. We were very lucky to be escorted around the 51-acre campus by a [...]]]></description>
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<p>Welcome, dear readers, to Trinity College Dublin! Its story begins all the way back in 1592, incredibly, and is the oldest university in Ireland. It has over 16,000 students and is #52 in the world&#8217;s Top 100 universities. It&#8217;s really, really gorgeous. We were very lucky to be escorted around the 51-acre campus by a generous friend who is currently there working on her PhD.</p>
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<p>Two marvelous things are at Trinity College and sadly, neither permits photography. Those are the Old Library and the Book of Kells Exhibition. The former is referred to as the Long Room and was built in 1712, is over 200 feet long and quite narrow, and very grand and lovely. Of course, it contains the most ancient and rare books &#8211; all of which, I think, must be handled with gloves and special care, and only after one has acquired permission to do so.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a photo I&#8217;ve found to give you an idea of how magnificent it is:</p>
<h5><img class="alignnone" src="http://50essentialexperiences.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/GettyImages_77239333.jpg" alt="" width="600" /><br />
<em>Photo courtesy of Getty Images</em></h5>
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<em>Photo courtesy of The Modern Day Atelier</em></h5>
<p>And even then, it absolutely fails to do the beauty of the place any real justice. Trust me.</p>
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<p>The Book of Kells shan&#8217;t be bastardized with a sad Google search, because it&#8217;s much too extraordinary for that. It&#8217;s one of the world&#8217;s oldest books, experts put it around 800 A.D., and was created by Celtic monks. Though I&#8217;m sure many find it inspiring due to its religious nature &#8211; it contains the four Gospels in Latin and has over 500,000 visitors every year &#8211; I was spellbound by its remarkable age and lustre of the script, decoration and scenes. You must see it with your own eyes! It&#8217;s considered a national treasure in Ireland.</p>
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<p>Back to the famous Campanile in the quad, or the Library Square, of Trinity. The four corners halfway up each have a statue to represent Divinity, Science, Medicine and Law. There&#8217;s an amusing superstition for students &#8211; if you walk under the tower, you&#8217;ll fail your exams and won&#8217;t graduate! It&#8217;s taken <em>very</em> seriously.</p>
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<p>M chatting with a lovely local femme &#8211; she happens to the fiance of our friend at Trinity, and was a fabulous tour guide as well (she should be, she too went to school there)!</p>
<p>They&#8217;re both really fantastic people, and we were incredibly happy to spend so much time with them in Dublin! They took us to an amazing dinner with fabulous cocktails, a mind-blowing drag show at one of Dublin&#8217;s most popular gay bars, gave us the VIP tour of Trinity College and hung out with us at the Old Jameson Distillery. Not to mention the super helpful (seriously, I do not know what we would have done without it), custom Google map of all the best places to shop, eat, drink and visit in Dublin. Thanks again, you two! XO!</p>
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<p>After the library, this damn sphere is for sure my favorite. It&#8217;s by an Italian sculptor, Arnaldo Pomodoro, and his series of these &#8211; &#8220;Sphere Within Sphere&#8221; &#8211; are in places around the world. Even San Francisco&#8217;s de Young has one in the sculpture garden, but not quite so grand (and shiny)! as this.</p>
<p>Also, this conversation was funny:</p>
<p>&#8220;That sphere is amazing. How awesome it would be if it could spin around!&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Oh, it spins.&#8221; <em>(You have to imagine the soft, pretty Irish accent.)</em><br />
&#8220;WHUT. No way. Lies.&#8221; <em>(And then my bossy American one.)</em><br />
&#8220;It does! I&#8217;ll show you!&#8221;</p>
<p>Cue to the delicate femme creature you see above marching right over to the sphere in her fancy outfit and giving it the old heave-ho! A gal after my own heart, she got that sucker spinning gently &#8217;round and &#8217;round, and we were delighted! Onlookers must have thought we were insane.</p>
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<p>TA-DA!</p>
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		<title>Outside Lands, B.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 06:33:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>SBJ</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[F A N C Y. I had a lot of feelings about wearing this dress (100% raw vintage silk, can we talk?) to a filthy music festival in dusty old Golden Gate Park, let me tell you. Even M had feelings about it. But you know what? WHEN ELSE, DAMN IT? What myriad other days [...]]]></description>
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<p>F A N C Y.</p>
<p>I had a lot of feelings about wearing this dress (100% raw vintage silk, can we talk?) to a filthy music festival in dusty old Golden Gate Park, let me tell you. Even M had feelings about it. But you know what? WHEN ELSE, DAMN IT? What myriad other days has this wanker San Francisco summer presented me with, days that scream &#8220;Go on, child, wear head-to-toe silk if you like, let this breeze ruffle the hem, it&#8217;s the summer of love, let your curls all fall down, I adore you&#8221;? That would be basically none. Carpe diem, kittens, and <em>trust</em> that I worked this in all my backstage glory.</p>
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<p>Nevermind the girls sitting in the hut behind me, they were just taking refuge from the late morning breeze to roll some joints. &#8220;Wait, there&#8217;s people in there,&#8221; M whispered when I started to prance on over. &#8220;So what,&#8221; I sighed, and our friend was all, &#8220;They can leave if they don&#8217;t like it.&#8221; I was real sweet though, I warned them that I was just taking a few photos and made sure they didn&#8217;t mind. They had <span style="text-decoration: underline;">a lot</span> of weed. I&#8217;m pretty sure I could have pissed on the side of it and they wouldn&#8217;t have noticed, anyway. KIDS THESE DAYS, and their substances.</p>
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<p>Long story short, I felt that it was the third and final day of the festival, the sun was shining, and the dress and I would both survive. I was right! Did I tell you that Vanessa Hudgens (of HSM fame) was there on Saturday? We saw her during The Arctic Monkeys (I now own two of their albums, by the way), looking surly but cute, and wearing a spirit hood and a dress that definitely hadn&#8217;t survived the day. Fringe. Such a shame. We also saw a giddy, rugged-looking KAREV (Grey&#8217;s Anatomy, Justin Chambers, ringing any bells?) rushing out of the VIP area on Sunday night.</p>
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<p>We started the day early with a round of coffees and fresh baked croissants courtesy of one kind Canadian, and got to the park in time to see Charles Bradley, who after sixty years of life is just now hitting his stride as an incredible soul singer. It was a wonderful, wonderful way to start off a glorious Sunday. We headed to Sutro to make sure we were nice and early for the tUnE-yArDs, who drew an insanely huge crowd for so early in the day, and didn&#8217;t disappoint fans (and certainly made new ones).</p>
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<p>We meant to catch Latryx and Lyrics Born / Lateef, but somehow ended up taking a very long lunch (Korean tacos and pulled pork sandwiches from Maverick) with a detour back to VIP sanctuary, and didn&#8217;t end up back at Sutro until Julieta Venegas, who brought the lovely and talented Ana Tijoux onstage with her for a song or two. Determined to secure our excellent spot up close and stage left for Beirut, we ended up warding off a potential fence-climber during Little Dragon&#8217;s mostly yawn-worthy (yeah, I said it) set, and just relaxed and drank and told stories while I watched the clock for 6:50PM to roll around.</p>
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<p>I don&#8217;t know how to describe the way I feel about Beirut&#8217;s music. It sounds the way love feels. To me. There are many ways to love, many kinds of love to love, there are myriad themes on love and there are love&#8217;s terrific and terrible highs and lows, and there they are, in every heartbreaking, beautiful note they play.</p>
<p>There was a moment, before they started but after Little Dragon ended, when the crowd surged something awful and nothing felt right, and I actually considered leaving. I&#8217;ve never seen Beirut live and if it wasn&#8217;t going to be perfect then I didn&#8217;t want it at all. Then something magical happened.</p>
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<p>A backstage bracelet was slipped onto my wrist and I wandered away from our little group, was granted access to go behind the security guy policing the gate, and walked around the side of the stage and right smack into Beirut. They&#8217;d been forming some kind of pre-show circle, literally moments from taking the stage, and I turned a blind corner into the middle of them all huddled under the massive stage beams. For a split second they stood around me before some awkward shuffling around to let me through, and I stood there sort of dumbfounded but thankfully silent, and completely unable to believe my eyes. Sure, it&#8217;s a wee bit silly and kind of fangirl, but for a beat my little world stood serenely still.</p>
<p>Eventually I made my way backstage while they were playing, and I waved to M in the crowd (she saw me right away and I could see her grinning and waving back, pointing so our friends could see, too). How could the show be anything less than perfect after that?</p>
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<p>I only stayed backstage for a few songs, because I couldn&#8217;t bear not having M right next to me for it, but I was able to snap some pics. Look at that sweet face singing his tender heart out! Lucky for us, they&#8217;ll be back in October, and I can&#8217;t wait to see them again.</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/6699/p2230031" rel="attachment wp-att-6707"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-6707" title="P2230031" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/P2230031-1024x819.jpg" alt="" width="600" /></a></p>
<p>Dress: Winter Kate<br />
Leather: Elie Tahari<br />
Bag: Freebird by The Sak<br />
Necklace: Mariele Ivy<br />
Silver Cuff: Made Her Think<br />
Earrings: Asos<br />
Shades: Ray-Bans<br />
Boots: Nine West</p>
<p>Love,</p>
<p>FFAF</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/6699/p2230066" rel="attachment wp-att-6708"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-6708" title="P2230066" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/P2230066-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="400" /><br />
</a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 11px; font-weight: bold;"><em> Backstage awesomeness*! ZOMG!<br />
*This is basically the only photo (and there are a few) from backstage where you can&#8217;t tell I&#8217;m all teary-eyed** and delirious.<br />
**If you think that&#8217;s bad, you should see me at a Stars show. I am inconsolable.</em></span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Has it been awhile or has it been awhile, dear readers? While it&#8217;s true we returned late last Thursday night, we both headed right back to work on Friday, and it&#8217;s been a whirlwind weekend of readying the petite for summer camp and entertaining the MIL, who was sweet enough to let us fly her [...]]]></description>
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<p>Has it been awhile or <em>has it been awhile</em>, dear readers? While it&#8217;s true we returned late last Thursday night, we both headed right back to work on Friday, and it&#8217;s been a whirlwind weekend of readying the petite for summer camp and entertaining the MIL, who was sweet enough to let us fly her up to manage the dog- and house-sitting duties while we were on our epic family vacation.</p>
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<p>She&#8217;s already flying back home tomorrow, so today we brunched at the amazing <a href="http://serpentinesf.com/">Serpentine</a> in SF&#8217;s Dogpatch district, and road-tripped up the coast to see the magical <a href="http://www.nps.gov/muwo/index.htm">Muir Woods</a> and soak up some sun at the very sweet and quaint <a href="http://www.stinsonbeachonline.com/">Stinson Beach</a>. It was a glorious day, all blue skies and stolen patches of delicious warmth in between brisk sea breezes.</p>
<p>We came home, utterly exhausted from a 12-hour day out and about, and stuffed ourselves with carnitas nachos and strawberry lime margaritas. I figure after all that hiking and not crying over goodbyes and not dying on HWY 1, we earned it!</p>
<p><a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/22.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-6364" title="2" src="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/22.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="450" /></a></p>
<p>If these photos have a familiar ring to them, it&#8217;s because they&#8217;re the companion pics from FFAF&#8217;s earlier <a href="http://fitforafemme.com/blog/archives/6245">Mother&#8217;s Day post</a>! (Yes, yes, way back in May. Good grief!) I&#8217;d forgotten about them, which is ridiculous because M looks amazing and her pattern-mixing is kind of epic. It&#8217;s also interesting to note that it was perhaps warmer in May than it&#8217;s been in June thus far.</p>
<p>Anyway, enjoy, and keep an eye out for lots of on-location FFAF posts from our holiday!</p>
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<p>Blazer: H&amp;M<br />
Madras Shorts: Ralph Lauren<br />
Shirt: Calvin Klein<br />
Striped Tie: Tommy Hilfiger<br />
Tie Clip: Vintage<br />
Sunglasses: Dickies<br />
Boat Shoes: Payless</p>
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<p>PS. Here are some gratuitous loverbird shots. Tender!</p>
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