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Ta-da! Welcome to my first letter to a reader. Mrs. Fancy Pants wrote to say nice things, ask a few questions and make some suggestions. Here is my reply to her:

Dear Mrs. Fancy Pants:

I can’t tell you how flattered I was to see you and Fancy make appearances on my little blog! So happy! I’m really glad you enjoy it, and I always welcome Friday distractions.

Now, on to your fine points:

A. Arturo Chiang! Those sueded kittens came with me to Spain; I have a lovely halter dress with a delicate pink floral print on white, and they are perfect together in an overdone, well-matched Charlotte York of SATC way. (After all, some days are Charlotte days.) I love your idea of doing an occasional shoe entry, and trust, aside from a few crazy splurges, much of what I snag is some kind of fantastical bargain or thrift find or deeply discounted department store deal. Shoe lust is a mystical thing that has more than once threatened to smash my heart to smithereens.

To tide you over, a close-up:

B1. Oh, the perilous heights of sizing in the USA! Delia’s is a like a soothing little cove away from the fickle, crashing waves of the fashion industry, but its Junior Dept. sizing can toss a saucy 20- or 30-something to the sartorial sharks. Want to really freak out? Check out Delia’s more urban sister, Alloy. Trend I’m most looking forward to this Fall/Winter? SKINNY CORDUROYS. OMG, I melt just thinking of them.

B2. I digress, let’s get back to the sizing: The dress in that photo is a 5/6, and it’s hard to say, because it tied in the back (I cut those off and just belted it to make it more me), but I felt like I could have gone down a size for a better fit. I think your best bet is to take your own measurements (or let Fancy help you, because that’s sexier and LOTS more fun!) and plug them into their handy measurement calculator. I did, and they told me this:

You are a size 3/4 or small in shirts, 7/8 or medium in pants or skirts, and 7/8 or medium in dresses.

Crapshoot! I know a couple gals who visit Fit For A Femme that also shop there, so hopefully they’ll speak up with some sizing hints, too! (Hear that, ladies!? SPEAK UP! We need you!) OK, now I know this hasn’t got anything at all to do with anything, but Mrs. Fancy Pants asked and I just need to share this with the world (Trix can back me up on this shit):

Sangria de cava, ZOMG. Heaven, and here’s the easy way to get there. Get your hands on the Stirrings White Sangria mixer and a cheap or moderately priced bottle of sweet white wine – I like Viogniers best – and a bottle of Freixenet or whatever cava you prefer. Cut up whatever fresh summer fruits you have handy, and toss into your pretty pitcher like so: 1/4 mixer, 1/4 white wine, 1/2 cava. Let it sit, but only after you’ve cheated and poured yourself a glass before it’s all had the chance to mix and mingle!

Fashion, booze and love! ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?

I have been a neglectful mother to my new raiment baby and I apologize. I was too busy lunching and sexing and watching the new SATC movie (outfit was FABULOUS, but I forgot my camera) to make any new entries, and work has been hellish. Last night I was at a fabulous restaurant in a fabulous dress for a work function, but was reticent to be caught by colleagues photographing myself in dark corners adjacent to the bar. Awkward.

When: Wed., June 18th, 2008

What: Black wide-leg trousers by Express, black tank by Michael Stars, seashell cap sleeve shrug with silver sequin hearts by Jenny Han and silver and black shoes by Hollywould for Target. Ring from Laundry by Shelli Segal.

Confession: This whole look was inspired by an ancient DKNY ad. By ancient I mean Spring ’08, I think. Whatever. The model is wearing this bathing suit with a pair of slacks and she is on a bike:

Tomorrow. More. I swan.